I Need Some Advice on THis ONe
Okay, after me and my mom got into it about homosexuality. I managed to completely show her how she contradicted her own morals. (Not accepting gay people, but watch The "L" Word, Queer as Folk, and Noah's Arc etc...) I asked her; would her love change if one of her sons or daughter were to be gay? Lord behold her answer was "YES". I need yah help on this one Love Muffins, because I would like to know if I was wrong for making this statement afterwards:
Me: "Are you serious? A mother is suppose to have UNCONDITIONAL love for their children inspite of. You mean to tell me that after 9 months of carrying a child, providing for a child, and raising a child all goes out the window because he or she gay??"
Mother: "YES IT WOULD"
Me: You want to know what the problem is? The problem is that you want to love people based on conditions. What ever you say goes, and that's how u gain a love for people, when u can boss them around, and they follow under your word. I desire nor want any part of that. A mother is suppose to love their child in spite of, and how dare u try to enforce your beliefs on my younger brother and sister. I honestly can not believe a woman in her 40's has the nerve to stop loving her child because of something in which SHE cannot control. Ahh there's the problem, you can't change someones sexuality so you stop loving them to make them feel guilty, and hope for change. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. I love you because your my mom, but I DO NOT RESPECT your morals, your thoughts, or anything that has to do with your limited understanding.
What are your thoughts Love muffins? Cause I am hurt by this....
Me: "Are you serious? A mother is suppose to have UNCONDITIONAL love for their children inspite of. You mean to tell me that after 9 months of carrying a child, providing for a child, and raising a child all goes out the window because he or she gay??"
Mother: "YES IT WOULD"
Me: You want to know what the problem is? The problem is that you want to love people based on conditions. What ever you say goes, and that's how u gain a love for people, when u can boss them around, and they follow under your word. I desire nor want any part of that. A mother is suppose to love their child in spite of, and how dare u try to enforce your beliefs on my younger brother and sister. I honestly can not believe a woman in her 40's has the nerve to stop loving her child because of something in which SHE cannot control. Ahh there's the problem, you can't change someones sexuality so you stop loving them to make them feel guilty, and hope for change. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. I love you because your my mom, but I DO NOT RESPECT your morals, your thoughts, or anything that has to do with your limited understanding.
What are your thoughts Love muffins? Cause I am hurt by this....
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Permalink Reply by Pablo Sepulveda on -
Unfortunately some people are blinded by the holy ghost.. I'm not sure if your mother is religious at all, but her actions were driven by what the church or her beliefs have installed In her.. Your mother is upset.. And deffintly told you what she told because of what she's feeling at the moment.. Give her time... She'll eventually learn she was wrong or atleast be a mother again... I told my mother I was gay almost 3 years ago.. At first it was he'll in earth.. Now she accepts it.. Not ok with it.. But deffintly asks like a mother again... Good luck my fellow brother!!
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