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Permalink Reply by Kasandra on -
I am also biracial and I recenlty stopped relaxing my hair and am at a loss for what to do with it since I'm used to wearing it straight. have the same curl pattern as you, what is your hair regime, I am looking for a way to keep the shape of the curls avoiding frizz plus keeping it healthy. Your hair is always on point.
Please Help!!
Smooches
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Permalink Reply by Porcelain on -
How Is Your Relationship Been Within Your Family Ever Since You Came Out & How Do Most Of Them Feel About Your Celeb Status As A Gay Blogger?
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Permalink Reply by Marcus on -
Hey B Scott I have a question. How do you know If you are truly over someone you are in love with. I am currently in a relationship with a guy that I love a lot! The guy is the sweetest guy every he is super nice, all my friends like him and we get along as if we were the bestfriends in the world. But when it comes to intimacy it's just not there for me. I mean don't get me wrong, I can get off with him just for the simple fact that he is there but for the most part I would rather take care of "business" myself. We haven't had intercourse yet so its been just messing around and all that, not to mention, I , myself have slept around on him a couple times. But the thing is I love him so much and he is an important part of my life. Do you think I need someone who I have more sexual chemistry with so that I am not looking else where? (fyi I work in a gay bar which makes it ever harder) so should I maybe not flirt so much? thanks
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Permalink Reply by somer lewis on -
hey B.Scott! it's me again! i have a something on my chest that has been bothering me for MONTHS! u see my mother has cancer and she recently lost her left eye due to cancer. we aren't sure what will happen to her right eye but it doesn't look good. i pray every night that she doesn't become totally blind! my mother says all she wants is to be able to see me graduate from ULL, get married, and then have kinds. i plan on doing all of the above but not with a MALE. i'm not a man hater but it's just NOT for me. i love WOMEN. i am in a very serious relationship right now and it's making me VERY DEPRESSED because i can't be who i am in my home town or in front of my mother. i have to split holidays between my family and my girlfriend. i love this girl. she COMPLETES me!!! my mother doesn't agree with me being a lesban. sometimes i very think about just sucking it up and being with a male. but that's not who i am nor is it what i WANT! i'm sooooooooo LOST! no matter how good of a person my girlfriend maybe MY MOTHER doesn't want anything to do with her. the crazy thing is, before she knew that this girl was my girlfriend she LOVED HER!!! she would call her, she would go to her house, my girlfriend would take her to the dr, etc. i was just wondering if u could GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! i have watched all of ur videos over and over but none of them seems to help me with this. i'm just so confused and i feel like i am LOSING IT!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Autumn on -
Hey B! My question for you: What do you find are the differences between L.A. and New York men?
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Permalink Reply by Gina on
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Hey B.
I have a question dealing with family. Recently I've been feeling a lot of tension between me and my mom. It's like we've seperated ever since my parents have seperated. I've noticed that she pays more attention to my sister than she does to me. Makes me feel like she doesn't care about me at all. Everytime I try to talk to her about it, she shuts me down. And immediately brings up all of my flaws and failures.
I feel like she's been treating me this way recently because I look like my dad, and I act so much like him and she hates it.
My question is: what should I do? Should I just let this problem go and ignore it? Or should I keep trying to talk to her? If so, how can I get her to listen without her getting upset and yelling at me.
Thx, Gina
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Permalink Reply by Coyotemode on -
Hey B.Scott! Where do I begin with this.. O.k well I was in a serious long distance relationship for about 2 years and a half with this guy. He decided to break up with me because he didn't want to be part of the ''gay'' scene anymore, and it really confused me for awhile, not fully understanding why all of sudden he broke things off after 2 years of commitment. I found out by him that after a month after the break up, he messed around with a guy. Now that really confused me a whole lot, and didn't know weither to get crazy or to keep my cool, but I kept my cool. Anyways what I'm trying to understand is why do I still love him? The emotion isn't as strong as before but it's still there. I've had relationships between that time, but that feeling I felt with him is totally different. Right now he has a ''girlfriend'' and it dosen't bother me but it bothers me that his ''girl'' dosen't know his past and continously leading her on. Could a man really change his sexual orientation just because he really feels the urge to change? It's just so confusing to me and I know your the perfect person to answer these kinds of questions.
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Permalink Reply by Carolyn on -
Hey, B.
I have a significant other, I guess you could call him. We're not dating, but we both love each other. We're not together because he lives in Michigan now and I live in New Jersey. We don't want to hold each other back if something else were to come along and have resentments.
I'm moving there in 3 months for school to be near him. The only problem is, he's bisexual and hasn't really explored the part of him that likes guys. He really wants to and I don't have a problem with that. But I don't want to leave my whole life behind just to get hurt in the end. But at the same time, I don't want to always look back and wonder 'what if.'
Do I move there and hope that things will work out and that he doesn't end up getting a boyfriend, or do I just try to forget about him and move on? I love him more than anything and I'd do anything for him, but I'm just torn. I know you can't make a decision for me, but some advice would be nice.
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Permalink Reply by Tanesha (Captain Planet) on -
What up B!!!
Im coming at you again with another burning question!! LOL
Do you think that as a gay man, your sexuality has hindered some of the opportunities that could have been afforded to you? I see that you are very successful at what you do, not to discredit that, but do you think that if you were straight you would be more successful? If so, how do you combat the discrimination within the industry against your sexual orientation? If not, what advice would you give to those who are experiencing discrimination as a result of their sexual orientation?
Thank you,
Tanesha
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Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on -
Hello B.Scott! (hi hi hi hi)
I would like to know, what do you think about the gay community as a whole? Meaning the whole 'masculine vs feminine' thing...like guys who say they'll only date a certain kind. ( I already gotta man so this isnt really my issue,lol) I was having a round table discussion with my friends the other day & several topics popped up. Like do you think people stay single because they are too picky and need to focus on upgrading themselves instead of looking for mr. or mrs. 100% ? Is sex our downfall? Like not waiting until you know that person other than "how big is your ___ ?" & after that it really isnt all that important...I personally have a 3 month rule (think Joan from the tv show Girlfriends) & finally are we really THAT shallow? Time waits for nobody & when father time hits us with that age of 70 & up (for those of us who live that long) those things wont matter. Must we judge each other on who works out more, whos more masculine, whos more of a diva etc., most of my friends are single & sometimes they just seem somewhat 'bitter'. Do you think as a "community" we could do better in upgrading each other as well as ourselves?
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Permalink Reply by Lorenzo Brown on -
HEy B
Big fan, can u please tell me how to end a relationship. u see i was in a relationship with a cop but stop beacuse he was married and i felt guilty and i do believe on karma, beacuse nothing good is not going to come to me until i end this. But this guy wont stop and i keep getting stalking and recieving private calls. he even got his buddies looking after me to watch my every move. He keeps showering me with gifts and everything. well basically how do i end this and trust i already told him its over. Please answer my question thank u B.
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Permalink Reply by Arielove on -
Hey B. Scott I was recently watching some of your videos and I came across the way your can tell your dude's gay and I think my friend is gay but, I can't really say anything because he'll get mad at me but I'm just trying to help cause he dates girls as a cover up and I just want him to be honest with himself. I guess I'm just trying to help him since he is my best friend. Do you think I should just leave it alone and let him figure it out for himself and come to truths with it. I don't know he's my best friend. Ariej
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