"HE SAID IT WAS HIM - BUT IT WAS REALLY SOMEONE ELSE!?"

Love Muffins, I am so miffed right now! How do you feel about internet dating?
I met a guy on FB, and we started to have great communication via text, email, and even phone convos. Well, when we first started the phone thing, I asked him (because you are supposed to) is your profile real. Without hesitation….he said, “YES!!!” Ok, so after that, we continued our conversations and emails…and so forth. One day, I decide to go back to his profile, just because…no real reason! Well, someone left a comment that the profile was fake…and the pictures belonged to a body builder. To my surprise, I “Googled” the name of the bodybuilder and up pops many pictures and Youtube video of this guy whom I was supposed to be talking to. Well, I sent the guy the video and asked him, “WHY?” he apologized and said he was disfigured in a car accident and looked horrid. So he wanted a friend and he wanted to tell me the truth LATER!!! He was such a nice guy, I thought. His emails were so touching and sincere, I thought. That same day, I found out that he had several people on FB that he was lying to and the same emails and convos he had with me…., they had the same words!!!??? All day, he blew up my phone and filled my inbox with tons of “I’M SORRY!!!”……So, My Fellow Love Muffins…WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE??? WOULD YOU KEEP HIM or TOSS HIM??? (By the way, I finally answered the phone, let him explain…and ultimately told him ‘Good-Bye’!)

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Permalink Reply by Chele72 on October 7, 2009 at 9:51am: Oh god that is to much BS right there....... Let him go, he sounds crazy and you don't know what else he could be making up. I have met a few men online and every single one of them I don't talk to now. He doesn't sound safe... let it go.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SADIO on October 7, 2009 at 11:09am: YEAH Chele.....He is GONE!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chele72 on October 7, 2009 at 1:52pm: Thank God!! This whole thing didn't sit well with me. As I was reading I started to feel sick to my stomach and usually that is a sign.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Miss Kassie on October 7, 2009 at 12:07pm: Chele said it pretty much, I def would've left that on the SPOT!! And I mean it lol.. so good going Sadio~..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chele72 on October 7, 2009 at 1:53pm: I wouldn't have even let him know I found out. He never would have heard from me again...LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on October 7, 2009 at 12:13pm: This is one of the reasons I have given up on Internet Dating its just to much Bullshit that comes along with it. My time is to precious to spend trying to figure out if you are who you say you are. What's the damn point for posting a fake picture. Its not like I'm blind and won't noticed your 2 shades darker and 200lbs. heavier than your pic...lmao!!!!! If you are that insecure about your looks that you have to pretend to be someone else then yo ass need THERAPY ASAP!! Damn people, be true to who you are or stay the hell off the dating sites with all the bullshit!

Sadio you already know my answer to the question, 'WOULD YOU KEEP HIM or TOSS HIM???' I would kick his/her ass to the curb quick with no regret and a smile! :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SADIO on October 7, 2009 at 12:31pm: LOL....Honey, I tried my best to keep it simple....just a hello....and a good bye, then he went there....beingal lovie-dovie!!! lol...lol, so I said, call me!!! LAWD....YES, TIME WASTED!!! :oD; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chele72 on October 7, 2009 at 1:55pm: And let the whole church say.......AMEN!!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Alicia Jarrett on October 7, 2009 at 9:03pm: You definitely did the right thing. There was no way he could redeem himself after all of that bullshit.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SADIO on October 7, 2009 at 9:08pm: SO SO...TRUE!!! :o); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on October 17, 2009 at 7:41am: I just wrapped up a case like this not long ago. If I was you I would cut him out of my life completely, if he lied to you about what he looked like, who knows what else he will lie to you about, actions speak louder than words. I bid good riddence. & the fact he was saying the same shit to other people?

chile....that is why:

1) I dont have profiles on dating sites and I never respond to those cheesy ass messages on myspace, facebook, BLACKPLANET (yeah I go on there like 3 times a year, lol) talking bout "damn u sexy"... tryna spit some game.
I know I'm sexy-end of discussion.

2) I meet my potentials IN PERSON doing everyday activities, I met my man doing what I like to do (acting in an independent film) so we cant lie about what we look like.

3) Anybody that has to LIE about anything to get something or someone, got some real issues they need to work out with themselves. If you gotta lie- I say goodbye ( LIKE IM GLAD YOU DID!!!!) :o)

please update us on this! This made me giggle a little ( at him of course); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SADIO on October 17, 2009 at 8:26am: He was still blowing up my phone....so I let him speak. And that was it......Believe me when I say...I miss the person he was trying to be. Yeah...the 'fake' him was awesome.....and very romantic...AND the REAL him...is SCARY!!!!! lol...lol... :o}; ▶ Reply to This