I feel like im worthless
What do you do when you feel like you are worthless, and noone cares about you?
Love Muffin,
Jay
Love Muffin,
Jay
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Permalink Reply by Love Muffin on -
I think you should always love and care for yourself nothing should ever come in the way of self love and care. Praying and meditation help me cope with the trial and tribulations of life. Take time to work on yourself. Even when you feel like there is no one there for you and has no love for you, YOU should have enough love within yourself to keep moving forward. If you ever need to talk I always have a listening ear if you need it and the same for a lot of people on this site. Everyone is welcoming and has compassion for others. I hope everything gets better for you have a good one Laterz
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Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on -
How you feel about yourself is the way others will perceive you! If you are putting out negativity thats what you will get in return. You have to 1st Love yourself for who you are and recognize how worthy you truly are. Jay, think of all the positive things in your life that you have accomplished no matter how big or small then and only then, will you see how WORTHY YOU ARE! I don't know if you are Spiritual or not but there is one person who will always care about you and know your worth and that's GOD.
Please remember everyone is here for a reason and no one is worthless!
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Permalink Reply by Ms.NeeCee on -
Lord this use to be my daily! This is when the counter takes place. No matter how bad, extremely bad you may feel there is something wonderful you can pull out of your day Sweetie. The fact that you are here, the fact that you can talk, walk, and dance yourself into tomorrow so you can try to bring more light to your darkness. Like the other beautiful ladies said prayer changes things. It is impossible to be worthless if you are here! Speak positivity into yourself, and love yourself! Don't worry about anything and anybody else right now lift up you!
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Permalink Reply by Earl on -
You should NEVER feel worthless. If you choose to go that route, than eventually other people will believe it well and start to bash you of being just that. You should be grateful that your heart is still beating. Learn to love yourself and feel comfortable in the skin that you are in. Take the time to stop, breathe, think positive thoughts, plan to some positive things. Think about the things that you are good at. Always reel in the positive energy in order for you to feel self-confident about yourself. There is someone in this world somewhere that loves and cares about you.
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Permalink Reply by Takeshia Long on -
I probably shouldn't Jay but I do feel that way quite often. One thing I do is watch B. Scott videos. The beauty of it is you can choose which ones fit for that day and get a little uplifting. But the two other things I do is write and sing. In writing, you can put down the feelings you have and rest assured no one else can express them the way you do because, guess what. They're yours. Be it that it's because you have a secret that the rest of the world has (if you keep your writing in a diary or journal) or because you can look at that piece of paper and say "This is me. And I accomplished the feat of putting all of me on paper just now", you feel better. I find that it helps to say things in a poetic way too. Instead of saying "I feel empty", you can say something like, "I am a abandoned building. One that was formerly filled with laughter and love but is now devoid of all its tenants". If you reach inside of you and grab that, you will pretty much rip out all of that bad and have a good place to store it. And with singing, you can pick a song someone else wrote that best suits you or, even better, you can write your own. I'm sure everyone has those people who say "Call me if you ever need to talk". While you love them and some of them do mean it, most of them won't really be able to understand. So you have to find your outlet. Those are three things I do when I feel worthless. And even if it's only a little bit, I feel better for having given birth to a new piece of art. I hope that helps.
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Permalink Reply by THAT MUFFIN...KERRY on -
HEY LOVE I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL BUT YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING IT MAY GET LONLEY AT TIMES BUT THAT TO SHALL PASS JUST KEEP DOORS OPEN AND SOMEONE WILL COME THROUGH TO CARE FOR YOU I FEEL THE SAME WAY NOW BUT WITH THE LOVE I FEEL FROM FRIENDS OLD AND NEW I'VE COME TO REALIZE THAT I TO AM WORTHY OF LOVE AND MY SELF WORTH HAS IMPROVED GREATLY I OFTEN WONDERED WILL I FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL TRULY LOVE ME THE WAY I LOVE BUT I STILL KEEP DOORS OPEN BECAUSE SOMEDAY SOMEONE WILL COME IN TO FILL THAT VOID JUST REMEMBER YOU ARE WORTHY AND WORTH SOMETHING AND IF YOU KEEP THE DOOR OPEN THEY WILL COME...LUV LUV...KERRY...MUAH MUAH
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Permalink Reply by TONYA aka TFAB on -
Pray about it, prayer changes things.
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Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on -
Ditto :) I was going thru a few things last year and needed some time to re-evalutate things and people in my life. When you're down THATS when you turn to God and your friends. My friends are always there for me making me laugh even when I don't want to and making me feel loved.
Now everything and everyone is right where they're supposed to be and I feel perfect!
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Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on -
Look to God for him to help you see your worth, and to give you the strength to fullfill your potential. That's what I did and it's made me the woman I'm still becoming but I'm so much better for realizing my potential and that's what you need to do see your potential.
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Permalink Reply by Troubleoh7 on -
God created you, girl! And you're still here! He's got plans for you -but- you need to stop and listen and figure out those plans!
You are beautiful and valuable and don't let anyone tell you differently! When you see your worth and feel your beauty you'll know its there and no one will be able to take it away ... ever.
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Permalink Reply by Aisha Al Midfa on -
hmm i always hang out with my sister cuz she makes me feel so good! or do something u know will bring u joy, like riding a horse in the middle of no where, or cruising in the car with your favorite song playing, or eating chocolate! haha thats what i do =) hope it helps! and no ones worthless!!!!! but u cant help but feel that way at times..
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Permalink Reply by Gorgeously Glamorous on -
sweets, your not wortless, your priceless! meaning your value is so great that no number could possibly define you! GOD loves love you baby, and you have to love your self more than any body else.
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