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Permalink Reply by Carla Hill Williams on June 2, 2009 at 6:44pm

What do I have to do to become "Love Muffin Of The Day"??? It would make me soooooooo happy to be Love Muffin of the Day. That would totally bring up my property value.

Love you and all you do.

Carla

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Permalink Reply by Miguel Clark on June 2, 2009 at 7:05pm

What is your mission in life?

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Permalink Reply by Keemy [{~Y UR Beautiful~}] on June 2, 2009 at 9:04pm

B Scott, what would it mean for you to accomplish EVERYTHING that you have made it a priority to achieve? To be exact, how do you imagine you will feel and manage your life once you attain those things that your heart longs for so badly? You have made a name for yourself, you have acquired so much, and I know you haven't even reached half of what you want to do AND what I know you are CAPABLE of doing. Its only a matter of time, love. I can see it for you and so many others.

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Permalink Reply by angie on June 6, 2009 at 11:47am

I know you get this question all the time, but are u kin to prince because you could be his baby brother. My other question is do straight women come to you saying that they could turn u straight? I Don't know why I asked this question because it's obvious lol.

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Permalink Reply by m&m's on June 6, 2009 at 6:33pm

bscott my dads freeks out when i meet friends he dont like my best friend he want me to stop talking to him he treats me like a child and im 18 now what do i do ..i tryed to speak out nothin worked with him yours trully mohammed ..

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Permalink Reply by D.Harl on June 7, 2009 at 7:46pm

Hey B

Ok so here is my question. I tend to think that I have great self-esteem about myself when I go out with my friends and hang out, but when it comes down to boy trouble this is where it starts to hurt. Generally i am really relaxed about everything but for instance when i see i guy that i am highly attracted to i can never get a guy to feel the same about me. The ones that are into me are usually the older gentlemen (sugar daddy types) not that there is anything wrong with it but i want a guy my age someone that just clicks with me. I know what my type is but my self-esteem keeps dwindling down because of the rejection which in returns makes me doubt myself, which is probably why i have never had a boyfriend. So i keep saying that they are just missing out on a good think, but i not really starting to believe that anymore, i starting to give up on the whole thing.

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Permalink Reply by Danny on June 7, 2009 at 11:04pm

i love me some B scoot..

would u ever date a guy that have hiv.. and no i dont not have hiv it is something i ask everyone because it is something people should know... to learn the true passion of a person

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Permalink Reply by Jay B on June 10, 2009 at 1:36pm

B Scott, today I was reading an article about having a one-time sexual encounter with the same sex and if that makes you gay. Now as reading this article, I remembered all the guys that I "experiemented" with from a young age to around ninth grade and now they are claiming that they are straight. I'm not sure if I should agree with it or not because I feel like you can do something with the same sex and then go back to the opposite sex. Sexuality has changed so much so it's hard to determine who is truly straight and who is truly gay. My question for you is this, do you think that a man can have a one-time sexual encounter with another man and still be straight? Or do you think that they are gay and hiding it? Or maybe even bi-sexual and attracted more to the opposite sex?

Keep doing you, living your life by this motto, "Unstoppable, Untouchable, Unforgettable" because I know I do.

Double Kisses
XOXO
Jay B

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Permalink Reply by JustMia on June 11, 2009 at 5:50pm

Hey B. Scott, I finally cut off all my perm and my hair is a curly natural. I am happy with my decision and I love my hair, but I do not know what to do with it. It's not too thick but I do have to use mousse and the occasional gel to keep the curl from turning into frizz.

While I am not biracial, I do look like it and my hair type is similar to that of biracial people. Two of my grandparents were biracial from both sides of my family. My hair, while curly, just reaches the top of my shoulders. Can you give me some different hairstyles ideas? I would greatly appreciate it.

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Permalink Reply by Chriswell on June 13, 2009 at 10:18am

B Scott,
Ok here is my thing. I've never been in a relationship and I'm 23 years old going on 24! I really want to settle down with someone but it seems like there is always something getting in the way. I don't want to want to settle down for the wrong reasons because right now I'm very lonely. I live in a one bedroom apartment by myself. I do pretty much everything by myself. I go out to eat by myself. My best friend has friends he hangs out with from the church he goes to. He even lives with 4 guys from the church he goes to. I'm openly gay so I don't come around often when my best friend is hanging with them so basically it's just me by myself at the end of the day. So, I crave that companionship of another man to keep me occupied but at the same time, make me feel special. There is this one guy who really likes me and wants to give me everything I need out of a relationship and he genuinely is a sweet man, but when I'm around him, sparks aren't really going off. I like him and he knows how to put it down in the bedroom but I don't know if I see myself in a long term relationship with him. I don't know what's wrong with me. Plus, the homophobes I work with aren't making life easy for me. I get treated differently than other employees and my supervisor just shrugs it off and tells me it's all in my head! I just want to be happy and content with life and right now I'm stuck by myself on top of a whirlwind of financial and social troubles! I feel very alone in the world. HELP!

Chriswell

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Permalink Reply by Dimp on June 17, 2009 at 5:01pm

Hey B.

What should I DO? Here's the story.

Ok when I first started my job in Nov., there was a worker there that caught my eye. That's all he did, I thought he was cute. I didn't think anything else of it. As the months flew by I found the 2 of us doing a lot of flirting with each other. I remember his first comment towards me. He said "your hair looks nice, it looks good on you." I was like thank you. Then he went on and on about his hair and how it grows and started talking about his facial hair and stuff. Another time he was bringing things from the store's big warehouse into my department's warehouse and he was like "hey wassup baby?" Of course I blushed and smiled. So during those times I was asking myself..."is he? is isn't he?" Does he mess around? But I never got my answer. Shortly after that, we all found out a new store was opening and applied for it. He and I are now at the new store.

Since we've been at the new store, I've learned a little more about him. He has a girlfriend at home and a baby on the way. I see him more and have a lot more alone time with him. He's been offering to treat me to lunch, wanting me to take my lunch with him, and gets upset if I took my lunch before him or if I'm about to leave. Then this one time I was going to the break room and he was coming from the warehouse with a dolly and he looked at the camera to see if it was on us (and it wasn't) then he looked at me and blew me a kiss and smiled! I smiled, blushed and nodded at him. Then he went on to finish what he was doing. All that makes me wonder, is he flirting? Is he curious?

So a few days ago i believe i got my answer. I was on the train going to work that afternoon and surprisingly he was on the same train. (we never rode the train together) So when we got off the train we started chatting, and I asked him what's for lunch and he said "what ever you're buying." Then he asked me if I had a girlfriend, I told him no, then he asked why, I said "cuz I'm not into girls." He smiled and asked so what are you into little girls?" I laughed and said yes sarcastically. Then he looked at me and smiled. (HE'S SO CUTE & CHARMING) This is the part when I believe I got my answer about if he's curious or not. So we we're on the elevator together and he asked "are there cameras on here?" I said "no." The he said "oh so I could've grabbed yo booty?" He looked at me and smiled and I was just smiling ear to ear, but he never grabbed it. Then he made another comment saying he'd feel sorry for me if I go to jail, and I was like why? Then he looked at my backside and smiled.

Then that same night, work was over and it was time for us to leave and he wanted me to wait for him cuz he wanted to ride the train together, so I did, and while we were on the train he made the "Suck D**k" gesture towards me and started smiling. He did that at least 3 times during our train ride. Then he was blowing me kisses on the train. So I now believe that he's curious!

Now here's the kicker....he only acts this way when he's alone with me and no one else is around! When other co-workers are around, he hardly says stuff to me and he act extra different. Like yesterday, he was clocking out going on lunch and there were a few people in the room we were in, then we both left that room so I could check him out before he left the building, then he said softly "come down to the warehouse with me" and I was like for what the he smiled. Like 5 seconds after that I saw his eyes art behind me as if someone was standing there, and he was like "Do you need to go to the warehouse?" I was like no do you need help with something down there (all this time i didn't know no one was behind me) Then he was like move your blocking the door. I turn around and there were 2 other ppl waiting to leave. So its like he started to talk to me in "that" way but then switched it up after he noticed the ppl was behind me. So he's one of those kind, I believe he's afraid of it, but wants to try it and doesn't want anyone to know about it. And there we're plenty of other times where he wouldn't even look at me or say anything to me if a bunch of people are around.

Now my question to you BScott is, what should I do? Should I just broadly ask him if he's curious and want to try something? Or should I leave that type alone? Cuz he keeps flirting with me and I'm finding myself more and more attracted to him. I like when he gives me that attention. He's really cute, smells so good each day and night, even after he's been down in the warehouse working hard! I'm even dreaming about this guy! I"m gonna try to get a picture of him next time I work with him. When I see him, I get butterflies and each time we see each other and our eyes meet, they stay connected until one of us has left the room. Its like I know he is curious, he has to be and I'm willing to give him a go if he wants me to. So what should I do B?

*He's not black* lol

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Permalink Reply by DeeLishish [insider] on June 18, 2009 at 11:43am

Hey B Scott!!

Im a huge fan of yours...im 18 and i need advice on what to do..

Ok so I hang out with this girl. This girl can sometimes be ok but then she seems to have too much drama and shes constantly jealous of me and she always seems to like the same boy that i like and she gets mad when she finds out that i like that boy. Now this girl is the groupie type. I mean she's past the level of a ho. What I mean by groupie is that there could be a group of boys that she and I know, and she sleeps with all of them. I keep trying to tell her to stop giving it up so easily because only thing that will happen is that they will all diss her and leave her for their ex-girlfriends. This has happen 3 times already. I want to take a break from her but I dont know what it is that makes me feel bad for her because nobody likes her. Here comes the jealousy part...when i had won prom queen and all the attention was on me she always tried to find someway to steal my spotlight. Then she comes over to my house eat up everything and uses my computer and then she tries to charge me for doing my hair.. Ugh im just so sick of being friends with somebody and they always end up jealous or being jealous of me..all i want is a friend that likes me for me not what i have...Ugh what should i do?

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