Love & Valentines Day

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Permalink Reply by Porcelain on February 10, 2009 at 8:36pm

I hate Valentines Day...I was in love years ago, but could careless for it at the moment... I love myself, family & friends...

I am so srry to the topic starter for being so bitter, but I haven't had a good Valentines Day to date! So I could really careless for it...

Muahz Love Ya Tho

Porce

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Permalink Reply by DeeDee Fierce on February 10, 2009 at 8:44pm

LMAO!!
iHate it 2 =(
Love is sooo overrated now!!

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Permalink Reply by DaniFAB the Diva on February 10, 2009 at 9:11pm

My knee jerk reaction to this topic is "fuck Valentines...fuck love"!!! I am a pessimist when it comes to love. I don't believe in love at first site, love conquering all, or all you need is love. I believe that love is deaf, dumb and blind, and makes you feel like a fool most of the time. My glass is half empty on love! *singing* It takes a fool....to learn...that love don't love nobody...

This bitter sister moment was brought to you by Allstate Insurance...You in good hands with Allstate.

But here's the flip side. Do I believe in love? Yeah! Do I believe in unconditional love? Yeah! Is love easy or simple? Yeah....but we make it hard. Hard as fuck!!! But is love worth it? Hell yeah!!! I believe were all filled with an infinite amount of love, were bursting at the seems with love, but were so scared that it wont be returned we keep it bottled up. See I still believe in love. I just have problems with Valentines Day, and this is why. Valentines Day makes people feel sad and inadequate because they dont have a special someone who loves them, someone to buy them flowers or gifts or spend time with. But if were filled with all this love, and everyone needs love, what's stopping us from showing love to the people we already love. This Valentines Day...Instead of sulking about the man I aint got...I'm going to show all the people I love, how much I love them. Quit bottling up your love until you find that "right" person. Live a life filled with an outpouring of love.

Now that was downright sappy! I'm loosing all my gangsta points on this one.

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Permalink Reply by Porcelain on February 11, 2009 at 10:57am

"This bitter sister moment was brought to you by Allstate Insurance...You in good hands with Allstate."

YEEEEESSSSSSS DANI! WERQ

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Permalink Reply by Tanesha (Captain Planet) on February 11, 2009 at 2:21pm

"believe were all filled with an infinite amount of love, were bursting at the seems with love, but were so scared that it wont be returned we keep it bottled up." - OMG I am feeling this way about someone right. i have a crush on them but because I'm afraid of the rejection i wont let them know.

I LOVE lol the second half of your statement!!!

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Permalink Reply by RoRo From the Ashes on February 11, 2009 at 3:51pm

Lawd Dani you aint EVAH gonna lose gangsta points. Gangstas need love too! LOOOOOOOVE YOU!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by ms.glitterati on February 10, 2009 at 9:38pm

Valentines day is for suckas!!!

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Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on February 11, 2009 at 1:51pm

*pops in*
~on behalf of the lovemuffins that love loves back~lol jk

well my "advice" would be to ALWAYS circulate good karma... because you ARE being watched....by the other's friends you do & don't know , your conscinece & God.

I haven't been single on valentine's day since sophmore year in hs back in 2001! I've always been "lucky" as people say or BLESSED as I know . When you let LOVE flow in all areas of your life...PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO IT! ...no matter what. That's another reason why I'm rarely ever single.

My boyfriend won't tell me where he plans to take us for valentines day! But "mysteriously" my boss let me have next monday & tuesday off .... & I overheard him having a convo with an airline company....hmmmm......

last year we went to dallas for a few parties & we bought each other some jewelry & I got some stuff from Burberry & Dolce & Gabbana....& had some BOMB sex...

More advice is to THANK GOD....because when you love someone you love God at the same time, He made your love :)

I know I'm most likely going to be married by the time I'm 30...

*ducks*

...so if anything, single or taken keep love in your life! For yourself, friends, & family! My boyfriends in my town for 3 weeks...& we made a decision for me to move to Burbank cali when I graduate college...its only right! & I have way too much talent for oklahoma...
Now if u excuse me I gotta take care of some more magnum sized business! hehe:)

*pops back out*

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Permalink Reply by Tanesha (Captain Planet) on February 11, 2009 at 2:23pm

Estee you are a FREAK!! LOL Do your thing hun!!!

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Permalink Reply by eLeCTRo LoVe on February 12, 2009 at 9:43am

Man...do ii have some shit 2 say...

aight, as most of y'all know im in a relationship and things are great...well up until recently :(

Yesterday i ended up breaking up with him cuz of...i guess i'll leave the details out, but basically i went thru his phone (cuz my intuition told me something was off) and read some things that basically broke mah heart...

I spent all day yesterday...just...i can't even describe how i felt...i was angry, upset, confused...idk. He was beyond apologetic and he knew he fucked up...but still i couldn't get over some of the shit i read (which included some very negative shit about me to this other guy tryna holla at him...) and when i looked at him i couldn't see anything but those words he wrote...and i was devastated. Of course, me being me, i had to put on the 'i don't give a fuck, he's just a nigga' front...but it was krazii difficult...but i managed cuz i was PiSSeD!

(i promise there's a point to this story coming...just wait)

So...after ignoring him pretty much all day i told him he could come speak to me...this was like 11pm...and that he shouldn't plan on staying (cuz he basically stays with me EVERY night). So he comes...and breaks down right in front of me...like..i don't think i've every seen him like that since we've been together...(5 months as of today)...so after like a million tears and arguing...I realized that i can't see my life without him...and yeah, he fucked up...but like...i love him.

I had never been so certain about loving someone in my life...when I saw him hurting...i hurt too. I hated seeing him like that...so i forgave him (at like 3am)...cuz i know he's worth it...after all, we're only human...we make mistakes...and i know at the end of the day he'd do anything for me...and I know that id do the same for him....

((the point of the story/vent)) Love is real. and when you have it, its hard as FUCK. Am i afraid of being hurt again....of course! But love is so much bigger than that...its an indescribable feeling...and when you have it, you know. Dont be afraid to fight for it...cuz its not easy...at all...but its SO worth it.

...i know im rambling..and im probably not making a lot of sense (im bored in hell in sociology right now)...but thats okay!

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Permalink Reply by DaniFAB the Diva on February 12, 2009 at 10:18am

You were'nt rambling...you made complete sense. True love is forgiving and worth fighting for. I'm glad you were able to move past your hurt feelings to see that. This is probably one of the most beautiful love stories I've heard in a while, cuz it's real. No fantasy...No fairytales...No perfect endings. It's about the good and the bad...the laughter and the tears. It sure aint easy. Sending you loads of positive energy for the future! I love it when love wins!

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Permalink Reply by TRAV on February 12, 2009 at 10:36am

This was a very familiar story. I'm glad that you found it in your heart to forgive...because like you said, we are merely human beings...prone to NOT being perfect. I've been thru this type of situation a couple of times. The first time, I knew that he was sincerely apologetic...but the second time...the second time is when I start to reach up under my mattress, searching for my MUTHA shank. The reason being this: I'm not gonna allow some fool individual to play with my emotions & try and manipulate my heart...therefore tarnishing the true essence of who I am as a love being. Second chances are gorgeous...hell...even some third and fourth chances...but there comes a time when what we think is LOVE turns into INFATUATION. And INFATUATION turns into HATE...and so on & so forth.

Guard your heart my dear Denver Muffin...and don't forget to ALWAYS search from within for that LOVE that you seek from others. After all, self love...in my opinion...is the GREATEST LOVE OF ALL!

PS--I hate that you had to go through that post break-up haze, which is all so hurtfully consuming...I'm sending you some HELLA positive energy right now darling!

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