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Permalink Reply by Tizibabylove on May 11, 2009 at 2:46pm

Hey Lovee Muffin,
Honeyyy i got a question for u!!
Hopefully you can help your fellow little lesbian out...OK so here goes, it's been about two or three weeks that I've seen this girl i had fallen head over heels she used to work with me until they had fired me since the economy wasn't able to carry on so many workers,Anyways so she was into me but i guess the age difference between us had scared her off throughout time and hey who knows maybe she just wanted to screw me:/ whatevess.. so i decided to get over it [at least try]...yet!..now I'm in a relationship with one of my bestest friends and she's in love with me [since I'm her first and all]..now here's where my questions about to come to play i like her a lot but i'm still thinking about little miss heart breaker no matter how much i tell myself not to...should i break up with my girlfriend or should try and commit myself to her even though I'm not feeling as strong as she does for me?

Please help me out
mwah <3 Tizy

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Permalink Reply by DeeLishish [insider] on May 11, 2009 at 8:10pm

Hey SexyFace =D

I'm pretty sure you heard about and seen Rihanna's nude photos...

What is your opinion? Do you think celebrities do it for a publicity stunt? Do you think celebrities should watch what they do because there are young people that look up to them? What are your views on "leaked" photos?

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Permalink Reply by Mr.Ch!valry on May 12, 2009 at 9:33am

HEEYY B. SCOTT~

Ok so I met this guy in 2006 back when I lived in Ohio and we connected right off the back. I asked him about us dating and he said he wasn't looking for a boyfriend, which was cool with me. Later that year, he moved to Atlanta to finish school, which really broke my heart. Just recently I moved here to Atlanta and now I get a chance to see him more often since we live 15 minutes away from eachother.

Now so very often, he wants us to start dating and I said I would LOVE that very much. The only problem I have with him is he still constantly talks to his ex (who he claims he can't stand) and I think thats not cute because in my opinion, I don't think its a good idea to start a new relationship and continue to talk to your past. Am I wrong or right for how I feel? Should I set him straight? Should we even date??

~Vaughn Dutch

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Permalink Reply by Shay on May 12, 2009 at 7:10pm

Hey B,
Ok so here how it goes. I used to go with this one dude who we been talking since Oct of '06. Ok in 2007 we had a little baby girl but we lost her a month later. I always made a promise to myself that I would prove alot of broken up parents that we will last forever reguardless if we lost our child. Well at my old job, this one guy started working there and at first we hated each other with a passion but we started to get closer to each after i called him one day crying cause me and my boyfriend (at the time) got in a argument. Now in our arugments, we always seem to belittle each other as much as we could can so the other would stop talking but i always seem to lose. So one day me and my friend from work went to one of his friends house for his B-day and we had a little to smoke and drink. A little after midnight i took him home and he was a little drunk. We started talking about alot of stuff and next thing i know hes giving me a shoulder massage and kissing on my neck. I didn't resist that until i thought to myself that i already have a boyfriend so i was quick to jump in my car and leave. After that night, the guy i used to work with start talking like on boyfriend girl friend status. I started slowly hanging with him more and hanging wit my boyfriend (at the time) a whole lot less. Afterwards it got to the point where we were claiming each other and were secretly dating. When my boyfriend (at the time) found out he wanted me 2 make a major decision either to stay with him or go with the co worker. I did break up with him so i could date the co worker, which we still are together now. Now heres my question. My ex and me always seemed to argue about any and everything reguarless of what it is. And he didn't have any kind of job wat so every so i had to support him. I let him use my car, get access to my bank account pay his bills so on and so forth. Well my boyfriend now, when i got fired he did everything and still is trying to support both me and him even though he gets paid a little $200 a week. Before we were officail he took care of me like his wife. Even though me and my ex did have a child togethter but lost her did i make a better decision leaving my baby's father for my current boyfriend now?

Love much,
Yung Ace

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Permalink Reply by Chriswell on May 14, 2009 at 11:04am

Hey B. Scott,
I'm enduring something very trying at work right now. I'm being discriminated against by my co-workers and my supervisors because of my sexuality. I honestly don't enjoy discussing anything concerning my sexuality with any of my co-workers for the simple fact that it's work and not fraternizing at the club with my homeboys after work. I don't see myself hanging out with anyone at work outside of work on a friendship level because of the stuff they put me through. I feel like the people I work with are only remotely interested in me when they want me to tell my business or deepest darkest secrets that involve the fact that I'm gay. I also don't get treated the same by my supervisors as some of my straight co-workers do. I feel like an outsider on my job and it's not like I can report it to my supervisors because they're the main ones making me feel this way. I want to quit so bad but right now this is the only job that's paying my bills while I try to get my photography career off the ground, which by the way, is taking longer than expected. I'm trying to become a fashion photographer and it's not as easy as I thought it would be. Anyways, if you can give me some advice on how to fix this problem, it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Sincerely Yours,
T0PH3R CHR1SW3LL

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Permalink Reply by Teresa on May 18, 2009 at 4:21pm

MY NEW NEIGHBORS UPSTAIR HAVE LET THE TOLIET OVERFLOW AND LET THE WATER DRIP IN OUR APARTMENT ALL WEEKEND AS A WELCOME GIFT. THE LASTEST IS THEY ARE THROWING THEIR BABY DIAPERS FROM UPSTAIRS DOWN STAIR ON OUR SIDEWALK. I AM NOW 40 YEARS OLD AND I AM MUCH TOO OLD TO KICK A BEAT HER DOWN. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR SOME SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO TELL THIS HEFFA ABOUT THEM NASTY DIAPERS.

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Permalink Reply by MarQuinn Stephan on May 20, 2009 at 10:51am

Hey B!

I really think I am in a pickle. I have been single for about a month now, and have been like meeting new guys, and its been fun! I most recently met a new guy like 3 weeks ago, and he is amazing. I like my guys older, confident, driven, goal-orientated and has a job; he has all of those. And to mention I like dark hair and light eyes and he has brunette hair with baby blue eyes. However, we aren't dating exclusively. He is living in a sober house, because about 90 days ago he gave up every evil he has had in his life, which I am proud and happy about. But, he just doesn't want a boyfriend, I mean neither do I, but we have messed around a few times and now I am like Electrik Red, it's "So Good" and he has me calling him boo and baby and all that stuff. But I know that he isn't committed to me, and won't want to be committed to me for a while!. So my question to you is, should I stay around being his friend and "f*uck honey", or should I just move on from him and tried and find someone that is looking for what I am looking for? But with that I don't even know what I am necessarily looking for... Now can you see how I am in a pickle?

Your true #1 <3 Muffin

Musicallegend

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Permalink Reply by Cory on May 22, 2009 at 7:04pm

B.SCOTT!! love muffins need you in MIAMI when will you come so we can Paw Paw together. and i dont know if you heard of it but Coldstone Creamery is the Pink Berry of the South lolZ much love

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Permalink Reply by Ash C on May 26, 2009 at 3:10pm

PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO RESPONSE TO THIS: So today i witnessed a rather mindboggling video on you tube today with the rapper Sexy Spec from the male group Pretty Ricky where he "grinded" to their new song and made a challenge to other male celebs in the music industry on who could "grind" the best. It seems soo much like cover up, but who am I to judge. I wanted to get your opinion on what you thought after watching! SO PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT THIS!! PLEASE!!! I love you B. Scott!

Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlNZzXlV2g0

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Permalink Reply by Joey Fanguy on May 27, 2009 at 9:42am

I need for you to speak on this baby. Exactly what that young man is speaking of down there about Sexy Spec from the male group Pretty Ricky. PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON IT HUNNIEDOLL <3

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Permalink Reply by Tova Charles on May 27, 2009 at 4:22pm

Hey B:

can you do a response video about spectacular being gay, just wanted to hear your throughts... there is also a Boy on you tube saying that he is spectacular ex- boyfriend. Just want your thorught.. thanks love T

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fdE-vF-EVA

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Permalink Reply by Briana Bailey on May 27, 2009 at 7:20pm

Hey B Scott.
I have a little...I'm lying it's a big problem I would love to get your insight on.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and for over a year we've been dealing with the same thing. Right here I'd like to mention that I am a black woman and my boyfriend is a white man.
Being an inter-racial couple we understand that there will be some racial backlash but lately it's been going way too far. We both have endured intolerance from both sides. Black men, who are for what ever reason offended, have openly and disrespectfully shown that they disapprove of Colin and I being together. They've gone as far as threatening and starting fights with him just for holding my hand. Luckily the only thing I've had to endure is the backwards glances from white women who apparently feel I stole something that should've been theirs. Lately it's gotten so bad that we can't do any display of affection towards each other in our neighborhoods without hearing someone taunt or catching people throw some mean looking glances our way. And to add insult to injury my own mother who taught me to judge and accept people by their personality and not the color of their skin as well as was an activist for equality for African Americans, does not like my boyfriend (who the rest of my family, friends, and students love) ironically and hypocritically because of the fact he is white. She has also gone as far as trying to turn other family members against him through over exaggerated rumors (we found this out after we met my older brother for lunch) and attempting to rally those who don't agree with our inter-racial relationship against us being together. Those who didn't agree with us have told us respectfully and accept the fact that it was our decision to do be together and have'nt given us any trouble. However the fact that my own mother doesn't support my decision hurt me to the core. My boyfriend is a good man. My theater students love him my dad even likes him, he's respectful, supportive, caring and sensitive. He got my little cousin to stop fighting in school and inspired some of my students to write songs. He's very very good to me and his family and friends have graciously accepted me as a part of their circle. But the way outside individuals act towards our being together and the way my mother goes out of her way to make him feel unwanted is slowly but surely breaking me down inside. I really would love your opinion on this situation as well as whether or not you support inter-racial relationships.

Much Love and Respect for you,
Briana<3

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