Should u fall for a friend or not?

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 12, 2009 at 5:38pm

im honestly kind of on the fence about this issue but would like 2 hear from yall

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Permalink Reply by TIESHA M. COLEMAN on September 13, 2009 at 10:31am

It's all just a bad Idea unless both of you are strong willed.
Umm. I feel as though one of you will have to be a little distance.
So that you two don't take advantage of each other.
Meaning one of you is going to have to be a little selfish.
If one of you doesn't have boundaries it will fall apart very quickly.

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 13, 2009 at 11:35am

i guess u also have 2 think bout what haps 2 the friendship if the relationship falls apart. i kno there r so many ppl who have gotten in a relationship wit a friend but ended up losin their friend in the end. but what do u do wit the feelings u feel? just hide them away and b untru 2 u in order to keep a friend?

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Permalink Reply by Love G on September 13, 2009 at 3:23pm

I've been in a situation like this more than once. I'ma keep it all the way real, shit happens. we can't help who we love or fall in love with once it happens. Now ofcourse, theres always a chance of the break up not being a good one or in good enough shape to remain friends in the end, but sometimes a chance at Love is worth the risk. The choices we make!

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 14, 2009 at 8:20pm

yes...very tru

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Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 18, 2009 at 10:24am

Umm honestly I think if your going be in a relationship with a friend you need to be in it with the intentions of being in a long term relationship. Me and my boyfriend now were on the road to being best friends, and somewhere along there he mustered up the guts and really kissed me, and I mustered up the guts to kiss him back. It's the best and worst decision I made it's the best because I found my soulmate, but we lost a lot of our friendship along the way. We got a lot of issues hell a few are posted on here, but the thing I love most about him were working them out and he's not going to leave.

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 18, 2009 at 5:22pm

wow...thanks for replyin. it sounds like ur a great success story :)...blessings to u both

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Permalink Reply by Jordan Carter on September 18, 2009 at 11:02pm

I don't think friends are off limits.. A good relationship oftens start with a solid foundation, that being a friendship. Life is definitely to short and you ONLY live once. There are no rules or rhyme to live by... YOu don't want to go on searching for the right one when they are right next to you.. I'd say make sure you know what you want and what you're getting..

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 19, 2009 at 6:10pm

very nice viewpoint!...thank u

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Permalink Reply by Essynce21 on September 19, 2009 at 6:23pm

I think that it all depends you the people at hand. I honestly feel that having a friendship with someone is necessary, whether that's how you began or you created one in the process of your relationship. Before making that step to say you want to be with your friend, weigh all of your options and look and the pros and cons. If you feel that your friendship can pull through then go for it. If you feel that you might lose that person and you don't feel you can risk it, then leave it alone.I had my best friend (whom I loved) tell me he felt the same, then when it came down to it he wasn't willing to risk the friendship...yeah it hurt but we are good and the friendship remains strong to this day. Like I said look at all the aspects and see where you think you and your friend stand. Sometime best friends make the best couples :)

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Permalink Reply by Brittany T on September 20, 2009 at 12:50pm

I agree with Tiffany!

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