WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNED FROM PAST/PRESENT RELATIONSHIPS?

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Permalink Reply by m&m's on June 7, 2009 at 11:14am

i learned not to trust the person at the first days he/she might take advantage of me and i’ve learned not to be a pain in the ass to him/her by calling 24/7 :P this things helped me inprove my new relationships...;)

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Permalink Reply by ZION`OLOGY on July 5, 2009 at 2:41am

i`ve learned to know my worth and want more out of life...and to love myself a bit more:)

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Permalink Reply by RoRo From the Ashes on July 6, 2009 at 9:59am

I have learned that the Love we thought we had, turns out to be the love we never wanted in the first place.Simple really, who hasn't

I have learned to take a compliment for what it is, and not to suspect some underlying motive that i just have to find out.

I have learned that not even 20 years can ever truly let you know what another is capable of, making paying attention that much more important.

I have learned that we can be lazy, taking the same type of man. Maybe because we fear the challenge, too unwilling to think outside the box we are comfortable in.

I have learned that taking a man solely for status symbol purposes makes you look like a dumdiddly fool. And that you should be treated accordingly. And all those friends who kudos you, dont know shit.

I have learned that a mind capable of buttering up your libido with it's information is just hours of pleasures waiting to happen.

And a lesson i learned VERY early on: A relationship based on sex, is just plain and simply what it is. Sex

and Lovemuffins don't fear your inner voice....if you don't want to stop using that condom with your man for WHATEVER reason....then don't.

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Permalink Reply by Julie24 on August 31, 2009 at 5:12pm

I have learned that when you end a relationship with someone and get back together for the second time the old problems and the unhappiness is still there. Sometime you can forget that at first and then it all come back. The things that you didn't like about that person and the things they didn't like about you too.

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Permalink Reply by Miss AJ on September 3, 2009 at 12:35pm

I have a LONG LIST but these are just a few lessons I've learned from my friendships/relationships:

--Love & respect yourself and others won't have a problem loving and respecting you
--Be open minded
--Agree to disagree when you can't agree
--Keep the lines of communication as wide open as possible
--Realize that you can't expect someone to be something to you if you can't or won't be that to yourself
--Don't always be a "yes" person, sometimes it's good to say no....keeps them from getting spoiled and keeps you from feeling like you ALWAYS have to say yes
--When it's time to let go of a dead situation, there are often times signs....don't act like you don't see the signs, pay attention to them and take heed

And the BIGGEST lesson I've learned by way of friendships/relationships........
STOP PUTTING LIFETIME EXPECTATIONS ON SEASONAL PEOPLE! <---- I live by this!

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Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 3, 2009 at 7:40pm

I've learned just because you want a relationship doesn't mean you should try make it work with everyone.

I've learned to listen to a man's actions than his words.

I've learned to not look in a man's heart but his mind cause that's what he's going to follow.

I've learned that sometimes boring is good.

I've learned I can't date people with kids I demand to much attention they can't provide.

I'm learning to love myself more than him, but damn y'all that is so hard for me right now.

I've learned if your my man, that what's mine is your's and what's your's is mine. And that damn sure includes your cell phone.

I've learned that just because he cheated doesn't mean I should too.

I could go on forever but those are the main ones LOL

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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on September 9, 2009 at 2:37pm

what i have learned from my present relationship is to keep their friends at a safe distance and dont rely on their loyalty. those friends belong to ur bf or gf. if somethin was 2 go dont, u can count on them 2 b lookin out for ur bf or gf bc that is where their loyalty lies. its nice to have ur man or ur gurl b frineds wit ur friends but at the end of the day, who is lookin out 4 who?

also, keep the lines of communication clear. it cuts back on the drama and keeps the confidence in the relationship if somethin were 2 hap. there is no reason y there should b others involved in a relationship that involves only 2 ppl. 2 ppl go 2 bed 2gether, 2 ppl made the commitment, 2 ppl work out the issues. period.

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Permalink Reply by DIGITAL.DREAM.KID™COM on September 9, 2009 at 8:52pm

i learned to never ask anyone to love me. I know that i deserved to be love just the way i am.

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Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 12, 2009 at 2:06pm

I can totally respect that

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Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on September 15, 2009 at 3:23pm

I've learned that Love should come naturally in a relationship. Its either Love or its not. Don't settle for anything less your worth so much more than that!

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Permalink Reply by Chele72 on September 21, 2009 at 6:19am

I've learned not to lose me no matter what. You can love someone and still hold on to who you are. If the person really loves you they will love the true you. It took me 8 years to learn that!!

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