WHAT TRAITS DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GOOD LOVER?......

What traits does a man/woman have to possess to qualify as a good lover? Also what traits makes someone a bad lover?

Good lover traits:

Good Kisser
Passionate
Spontaneous
Several Different Positions besides Missionary
Someone who knows how to be gentle and yet rough when necessary- (meaning a good spanking..lol)

Bad lover traits:

If a lover can't be as aggressive as I am in the bedroom its an automatic turn off (no whimpy ass lovers)

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Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on February 19, 2009 at 1:03am: chile ...part 2 LOL ! THE REMIX!
ok.....

GOOD:
be charming
GOOD KISSER (u see these lips)
must be good with his tongue....
tall
swaggalicious...
somewhat ballin' (& I aint scurd necka UPGRADE ME! IF YOU DONT LIKE THE CAR I DRIVE FEEL FREE TO BUY ME A NEW ONE!)
well endowed...well endowed...WELL ENDOWED!!! - like I said in a previous post I have a "hidden" thickness ...unless you're behind me, & a nubbit don't satisfy me. You must be this tall to ride!
athletic...
TALLER THAN ME.
a freak
loyal.
knows how to listen
loves to talk but not a chattabox...
is nurturing
REAL
is creative
has personality
intelligent
book AND street smart
humorous...
& lastly
shows utmost respect... I know I'm a trophy & he's my king I like to be treated like I'm his most prized posession... otherwise somebody can steal me,lol

bad:
being too friendly ...ESPECIALLYwith friends equally attractive...
alcoholic
bad hygene-WASH YO ASS!
controlling
dishonest
negative
dumb
to country or too ghetto (too much of any is just trashy...there I said it)
HAS KIDS & OR EX WIVE(S)
cheap (& .... I know the economy sucks now & I know I'm not getting a raise anytime soon - but still)
has NO STYLE- I can't be seen in public with that ...
dishonest
none of my friends really like em - my friends are like DETECTIVES , scooby doo aint got nothing on them,lol & THEYRE ALWAYS RIGHT! Even when I don't want them to be.
abusive (have my bail money ready...)
disrespectful.
too boring
& lastly...
too lazy.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on February 19, 2009 at 12:56pm: Estee you wrote a Biography... LMAO!!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on February 19, 2009 at 3:17pm: Don't I always?

& I gotta add this after coming home from the work place

Another BAD lover trait:

BAD Credit- not necessarilly financially but SEXUALLY & RELATIONSHIP wise...
If you are KNOWN for not being a good lover, or you are known as a hoe, a cheater, a gamer....
If I run into quite a few people that TELL me the same story about you booty, coochie & pee pee hopping, ...
If you can't HOLD TOGETHA something permanent, longer than you can hold a breath... chile...

I was out today & I got SO MANY texts and calls talking about gossip about someone well known in 3 states for being a stank ass slutty ho, I really didn't wanna hear it....but sometimes its best to be informed.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on February 19, 2009 at 9:17pm: LMAO!!!! Lawd Estee you are a mess..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by RoRo From the Ashes on February 19, 2009 at 2:15pm: ! Kissing and sexing may not have to be onpoint in the beginning , but they have to be malleable. A lover who learns is the best experiance.

Good lover traits:

When i forget the process of tying my shoe laces the next morning, its because of the humdinga i got last nite. So knowing what youre doing is definitely a plus.

One who doesnt get into the bed naked, with his hands under head, looking at you like you should take a hint. So romance a lil, dammit!

Someone who can do his thing in a bed, a car , on a hilltop, or even the five minute fotobooth and not break a sweat!

Someone who doesnt leave half of his bodys salival fluid on your face when you kiss. nibbling on the ear or anywhere else for that matter, shouldn't have to be preceded by a flood warning.

A good lover isnt scared to leave the light on.

Lenny.

Bad Lover Traits:

Taking and not recieving, theres a difference.

When your mind isnt on what your supposed to be doing, then your performance mirrors that completely!

I agree with honey here. whimpy lovers make me projectile gag.

When you get so serious with it that you can't laugh. Since when is laughing forbidden, is your self esteem so shot down? Take it easy.

experimentation is fundamental to finding out about yourself. So dont come into my bed with rigid ideas. the only thing rigid should be between your legs.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on February 19, 2009 at 9:21pm: LOLOLOL@ projectile gag.. Amen RoRo you are so on point!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ms.NeeCee on March 9, 2009 at 9:51pm: I love this, love it RORO amen.

Good GOOD's Someone who can mix it up! Someone that knows how to take it slow and hit every inch! Or get in a quickie if need be.

Sometimes I like to play street walker LOL So don't be scared to pull a lil' hairr and tell me what you want, I get's down!!!!!!!. It's just me and you and if you can't get down wit' ya man/woman like you like then it's pointless.

Talk to me, Please it's a turn on. But not if you saying some dumb *ish! Like what's my name and who's is it? Tell me it's juicy and what you want to do next and *Sorry got a lil' carried away*

Respect my needs, please don't ever just get your's and think that's it, you will have BB's or cobwebs before you ever get it again! The Bussin' is mutual!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ms.NeeCee on March 9, 2009 at 9:56pm: Negatives Someone who is constantly talking about sex and nothing else!!!!!!!! That is such a turn off!!!!!!!!!!

Someone who can't kiss. If you can't kiss than you will not be doing anything else. YUCK! Have you ever kissed someone and they have all that saliva and it feels like no matter how many times you brush or wash your face that the residue is still there????? eeeewwwww

You have to have a good personality, a job, and conversation. If not what can I do with you?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on March 10, 2009 at 12:42am: AMEN NeeCee... If you don't have a employer, not able to communicate, no personality and don't know how to wash yo ass I have no use for your triflin ass!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SADIO on March 10, 2009 at 1:38am: HHHHhhhmmmm, now ...LET ME SEE,
GOOD
1. LIKES TO CUDDLE

BAD
1. NO INTEGRITY!!!; ▶ Reply to This