When all the lies come to the light!

Okay I put my husband out two weeks ago yesterday and with this I am cool. What I have a issue with is all the lies that I have learned about in the last two weeks! Long story short I have had many conversations with a person that he never thought that I would. This also led to me hearing him bash me like I was nothing to this person through a phone call that he doesn't know that I heard. Me and this certain person have decided to have our conversations to remain private until the time comes to bust his ass with them! So I ask you all when do you think that time should be? We after all have a child together and he is begging on a daily basis to come home when I know that he talks to both of us each day trying to use the same tired ass game on the both of us...........

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Permalink Reply by Estee_Lauder on September 20, 2009 at 10:27pm: if I gather this correctly , the person he was cheating on you with & you are having conversations?

(if thats not the case please forgive!)

My friends and I run into this situation OFTEN ....we have to have each other's back in these cases. So I recommend yo u arrange a time where your schedules meet and bust his ass! Do it non-chalantly like at a walmart store.
I understand TOTALLY about the games people play...lawd. So you gotta have a better game to beat his!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kineta on September 21, 2009 at 7:37am: No he hasn't cheated with her but he has attempted to. The woman is his ex and his daughters mother! He has been trying to get at her for a while now but she said that she wouldn't do it cause she doesn't believe in interfering with marriages!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chele72 on September 21, 2009 at 5:58am: Wow...this is crazy.Do you think that your relationship with your husband can be saved? If so sit him down and talk to him. See why he has done what he's done. You never know...maybe the two of you can move past this. If not, Bump the games....have him come over and have her there waiting. Confront him and be done with the whole situation. I hate to say this but just because you have a child together doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship. You and he have to come together as parents for your child sake but as for a YOU AND HIM...nah, tell bruha to kick rocks.

That was a very bi-polar answer I know..LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kineta on September 21, 2009 at 7:38am: Oh there is no working it out he is violent I don't play the victim role well at all!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chele72 on September 23, 2009 at 1:12pm: Oh hell..... Drop his ass like a hot china plate fresh out the microwave!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by HoneyDip on September 21, 2009 at 11:34am: Well you said there is no working it out with your husband. So it seems to me that you already know what should be done. As to when you should take care of the situation, I think the sooner the better. Why put it off any longer. Just be careful since he's violent. Wish you the best Kineta.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 21, 2009 at 12:06pm: I agree with this you have all the proof you need. There's no need to play games like he is.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Beautiful Indeed on September 22, 2009 at 11:56am: (pulls out that old track)
I think you better leave (him)
alone (alone)
so pack his bags (yeah)
tell him to step on

You already know you don't want to deal with his two timing ass. Remember if YOU are not happy your child WILL notice. He can still be a father in another household.

Stay up sista!; ▶ Reply to This