Would you allow disrespect

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Say your boyfriend has a female friend who you believe likes him, and would LOVE to be in your spot. Now let's say you obivously have a distaste for this female, but you try and keep the slick mouth to a minimum. Now let's say your boyfriend tells her you don't like her and then she returns with the statement above. All over facebook so you could clearly see it. Just would like to know what you would feel and how you would handle it?

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Permalink Reply by RoRo From the Ashes on September 16, 2009 at 2:14pm: Your boyfriend shouldn't have told her that, that's disrespect number one. You have to be able to confide in him, and he COULD leave it up to you, to set time and place to let her know what the deal is. Loyalty, to my understanding, is an English word so he shouldn't have problems understanding it.

This heffa is basically telling you to bring it on with that statement.

I would unleash full mouth slickness to her to make your point, then unleash some deep shit on him to make him realize who he is in a relationship with, which is you , NOT her.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 16, 2009 at 3:46pm: Truly I don't want to give the girl the satisfaction of know that she got to me, which is what she wanted. Nor do I think it's my responsiblity to handle her, it's his. She got out of pocket and it's him I believe that needs to put her back in check. And I agree I don't feel he should have said anything at all to her about me not liking her he has ruined any chance of us ever being ever to coexsist, which apart of me believes he might want. I thought I was pretty close to having a perfect boyfriend, but this has totally changed that thought and made me put a wall back up with him. And it's like he doesn't understand why I am so upset but doesn't think it's a big deal. Nor does he think that this proves my point that she's not feeling him.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by RoRo From the Ashes on September 16, 2009 at 3:59pm: I get what your saying. With me it's like this: I fight what for what i want. But i do see your point.

Is what i am fighting for worth the duress? If he isn't defending your throne, and talking about it isn't helping, then letting it go might be the direction your heading in. Givin you hugs and MUAHs girl, i hope you make the decision that makes you feel like number one!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Clara 'Diamond Girl' Atwater on September 17, 2009 at 8:52am: LOL thanks RoRo. I'm just surprised I usually always come first, but I think just as much as this girl is tied to him, he is tied to her. She's been there for him, but he doesn't like her like that. They had the opportunity and she got shut down. He thinks it over, me not so much. But he says he's going to talk to her and explain that it's not cool.; ▶ Reply to This